French Antiques (and lessons for a neat freak)

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French antiques. The thing about French antiques is that there are many antique reproductions (even antique reproductions from as early as the industrial revolution) that do an excellent job of looking for the real thing yet without the hefty price tag. Unless you are wealthy and a purist for antiques, why spend a lot when you can spend a little?

One thing I have noticed about my antique buying habits is that mixing and matching is a lovely, less expensive combo when styling the home. Something new and old, a little of both, makes a good marriage.

In the above photo, two picture frames frame each other. One is from the mid-1800s the other one is vintage 1950s. Sure up close like this, it is evident which one is older. But as the frames are hanging behind a canape, it isn't easy to get up close and check them out– and in my world, nobody cares if they are old or not.

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Take this French candelabra base. It is not a hundred years old, but close. It was a dull golden metal, and I wouldn't say I liked it. But the price was soooooo reasonable that the light golden color started to make my mind think of other options…. and just like that, I bought it; adding a little flat paint and some beeswax, I was able to turn it into something I could appreciate, something that could tease me into pretending I had the real McCoy.

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Since I am on a confessional roll, I might as well tell you that I have faux plastic plants in my postage stamp garden. Though I must be honest, the French clay pot is a genuine antique, a bit worn but strong enough to house a faux plastic plant. One thing is sure– when I was away from home (these last seven months), my plastic plants survived and were waving green when I returned.

Note: The plastic plants look so real that my French Husband watered them, and they still survived along with the real ones… though the real ones didn't wave so green.

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What matters? Certainly not if the plants are natural or the picture frame is an antique. What matters is that our home base feels safe and nurtures our inner being. Though with that said, I must make one more confession… I am a neat freak. When I came home from California, I nearly bit off my tongue, trying not to have a complete and total meltdown about the state of affairs in our home. Not that it was dirty… oh, if you are a neat freak, you will understand what I mean. I am trying to learn to embrace my inner clutter so as not to be so controlling. Home will be more authentic that way, and my blog might have to forego the word tongue.



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31 responses to “French Antiques (and lessons for a neat freak)”

  1. I love the mix of old and new, and as much as possible I try to use my own family history in the old, not pay alot for another family’s.
    Plastic plant? No, there you really find my limit 🙂 I must have the real thing. Though being allergic I have to stay away from some types of plants. I was in England (Durham and Lindisfarne) a couple of weeks ago, and met some challenges in the British love for huge lilies. The small St. Mary’s church on Lindisfarne had alot of them, and several mornings I decidied to worship reading “the book of creation” outdoors by byself instead of reading The Book of Salvation inside the church.

  2. I love mixing old and new too and if something looks and feels nice it doesn’t matter if it’s worth a bomb or just a few cents! I don’t have your ability to style a house so beautifully though and almost wish I was a neat freak sometimes, cos you make it look so gorgeous – I’m afrais my confessional is that I’m a clutter and mess person and the strong bones of old furniture and nice colored rugs just have to hold the look together somehow through all the clutter.
    Hope your tongue survives – you can’t rename your blog now!!

  3. A HA!!! Yet another person who has some how gotten part of my share of neat freak….. How else can I explain why being neat is sooooooo dang hard. hahahaha Also I think it’s super awesome cool that you have fake plants. We have fake plants too and they’re lovely, a splash of colour that never fades…and yet…if you watch any design show the first thing they do is sneer and turn their powdered noses up at faux greenery…..hahaha anyways I just thought it was cool to read that you, some one I consider to have tons of class and style, to also nourish a bit of fake greenery. cool.
    ps I love live plants also, I have them too.

  4. It must be bittersweet being back in France – I know you’re happy and sad too. So it’s especially sweet how you’ve jumped back in both feet first, with such enthusiasm and love. All the best to you for continued strength.

  5. Love and hugs
    Blessings

  6. LMFAO at Yann watering the plastic plant. I think it’s sweet though that he wanted to make sure it was well taken care of. I will award him the Green Thumb Man award nonetheless. At least he put in the effort!

  7. Hi Corey, I had wondered if you would find a leeetle bit of domestic chaos on return but didnt like to mention it with all those happy reunions with friends, family, brocante and wonderful French life…. Husband and teenage son alone in the home is not a recipe for neatness no matter how handsome they are ! I am like you, it is difficult to embrace chaos if you have the neat gene. Perhaps todays tongue is “bite your tongue”. Not easy !
    Couldnt agree more about the mix of old & new. All new is soul-less and all antique can be stuffy in a family home. The mix of old & new is creative, comfortable and chic, perfect family living.
    Found anything interesting or even pre-historic tucked under the sofa yet ?! Jx

  8. Corey,
    Some would argue that if your house was still STANDING in your absence with two men in charge, that it would be a miracle.
    Am I totally agree…old and new, euro-cheapo and expensive, it all works together- as long as it reflects your own personal style 🙂

  9. You are so funny and brave sharing the plastic plant story – but then I’ve always known you for your honesty from your blog words. I’m a neat freak too – it’s impossible to change one’s habits!
    Meanwhile, I agree that mixing the really old and the reproduction works – one just needs to have ‘the eye’ to pull it together. I’m in no position to shop for high end antiques, however I do find beautiful, inexpensive things at our local antiques/vintage shops to tuck around my home.
    Corey, I’ll be visiting four Provence markets in Oct. – I planned it carefully! Aix, Lourmarin, Apt, and of course the ‘biggie, L’sle sur-la-Sorgue. I think dh is in for a shock – hopefully he’ll indulge my whim. The big question – how on earth can I bring much back with such limited baggage space? I know frustration will prevail – and just when the euro is looking so much better!!!
    I’m getting so excited about the trip and hope to see you!

  10. L-O-L, Corey!!!! 🙂
    Love*

  11. A marriage of ages! I love that.
    And not wanting to appear terribly frugal, I do love a good bargain and the idea of saving while not giving up on taste and aesthetics is very attractive.
    Thanks for all the great tips. You are a Decorating Diva. And the image of your husband watering the plastics plants …priceless!

  12. Watered the plastic plants? Just think, Corey, of how clean and dust-FREE you found them.
    LOL, big time, in the valley.

  13. Oh Corey! A fellow neat freak! Hubby keeps telling me to get away for a few days with my Mom, but I always decline, because I know the state of affairs of my tiny house will be horrid upon my return (with a NON-neat freak hubby and four young kids)! lol

  14. It must feel wonderful for you to be back in your home and sleeping in you own bed :0
    I am like you a neat freak…but over the years living with two men…that sounds so…well we won’t go there. Where was I yes my Husband and Son are definitely not neat freaks…I have learned to take their habits in stride and then run around and pick up like crazy. I actually am loving the messes around the house when my family is here with me…their good company is well worth closing my eyes to the disarray.
    I love having antiques and the very modern together.
    The modern which is now considered antiques…Mid Century. It must be my Scandinavian blood.

  15. I love mixing old and newer things Corey. You do such a good job of it. I hear you on the neat freak thing, me too!!
    Rosemary

  16. I like things that look old, whether they really are old or not. Clutter is my nemesis, and I have a place for everything. when it is out of its place, all hell breaks loose here.
    LOL

  17. I agree with you on the clutter focus. It is easier to enjoy treasures when there is some space between them. Mom is the same way but what really bothers her are frames or objects that are not straight on a wall. She’ll stop a conversation, go over and straighten the object, then resume the conversation.

  18. ha haaaaaaaa……a woman after my own heart with your fake plants. My green thumb isn’t so green, but I do like plants, so I do what I must. 😀

  19. Corey,
    Through this post you have endeared yourself to me even more by the fact that you have fake plants and faux antiques! I am not so fussy over the real McCoy either. I like a healthy mix of what I like and its birthing period has no bearing on my bringing it home!

  20. You hit the nail on the head regarding the authentic and the reproduction- buy whatever you like and fits the budget.
    I used to be a total neat freak, but had to just let go. My husband is totally sloppy and disorganized. I was giving myself ulcers scurrying behind him cleaning and rearranging. I’ve come to accept the good with the bad.
    I’d love to see some interior photos of your home. With all the available resources at your finger tips, and your fabulous eye, I’m sure your home is stunning!
    Penny

  21. My home is like yours, a little bit of both and I can certainly understand when you talk about being a “neat freak”. I too, am the same way and believe me when I say it is a real lesson in self-control for me not to say anything. I am learning though, that even clutter has a place.
    Kris

  22. I like your philosophy. It seems to work very well! Beautiful photos!
    KJ

  23. It is all about balance, isnt it? Old and new,,,neet and messy,,,fake and real,,,work and play. I have been dusting and dragging two large silk trees around for over 20 years, as,, “they don’t make them like that any more”, I am still enjoying the heck out of them, and I don’t care who knows it. Thanks for being real and true, that is why it is so easy to relate to you.
    And, how is everything in the romance department? Chelsea and boyfriend,,,Mattieu and Eva I mean. We would all love a new guessing game too! Joy in your day Corey!

  24. what matters is that love resides within those four walls…

  25. I hear you on the “neat freak”. I have gotten better over the years but I know exactly what you mean. It all has to be put back in its place.

  26. Hello…
    My name is Miss Mari-Nanci…
    And I am a neat-freak.
    -sigh-
    Yes, I too understand.
    It’s not dust, which matters.
    It’s everything being in it’s place, which matters.
    ,-)
    Gentle hugs,
    Miss Mari-Nanci

  27. Neat Freaks UNITE! I like my world to be MY way, which is the BEST way, of course. Right? Obviously God thought I needed to “amend” that notion slightly so he had me fall in love with the King of Casual and produce lots of children with casual tendencies (not all of them, God isn’t cruel). Add to the mix a mother-in-law who is casual extraordinaire and loves to come for long visits. Hence, to relax I garden with REAL plants and battle the “casual” ways of nature — I think I may be insane. But … it’s nice to know I am not alone in the world. : )

  28. Penny Yuen-Lanigan

    Beautiful website.
    Beautiful moments captured.
    Penny

  29. oooh, these antique posts are heaven, I’m eating them up. I miss France. the cup idea was v. clever – way to flush out all the lurkers!!

  30. FH remembered to water your plants while you were gone? Wow! Whether they were real or fake plants, that’s impressive!

  31. Oh how, please tell me, how does one become a neat freak? I really really want to be but oh my…there are so many other wonderful glorious things I choose to do instead.

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