Having Faith in the Card Dealt

 

                         

When I was a child saying the rosary and having the name of Jesus on my lips, was as natural as eating a peanut butter and jelly. My family didn't know how not to have faith. It was evident in every word and gesture they made. They believed and that was that! Miracles weren't miracles they were a daily occurrence, and God was someone you could talk to wherever you were, no matter how you felt. Growing up I saw faith as a natural part of living. I never thought to doubt it.

My Grandparents said the rosary everyday, maybe even three times a day, maybe more…actually come to think of it I do not know if they ever stopped saying the rosary? Well maybe when they were playing cards they didn't say it. But than again they often won so maybe they were praying then too?

In the photo a deck of cards with the doll rosary my Grandmother gave me when I was a child. I have thought a great deal about my grandparents these last few days as we are in Lisbon. Hearing their mother tongue has flooded me with memories. While visiting Saint Anthony's crypt a mass was going on, the sound of it echoed their faith, as we had to pass through the sacristy to enter the crypt I opened the door to the altar just enough to see the priest raising the chalice. In that moment I felt their presense as if they were standing next to me.

Have you ever felt a connection to the other side?



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38 responses to “Having Faith in the Card Dealt”

  1. when I was young – my parents hated catholics – I converted to Catholicism when I was in my 30’s – much to my mothers disgust. She now accepts it as part of my ongoing search. I love the rosary – I often say it and many, many ‘special’ things have happened as I have been saying the rosary at different times in my life.
    However – sometimes, I do have a hard time with having faith in the card dealt. great post, Corey xoxo

  2. without faith…I wouldn’t be here.

  3. Sometimes I wonder if Protestant religion has ‘thrown the baby out with the bathwater’ and lost a few valuable faith traditions. I have seen the comfort that the rosary provides patients of mine when faced with death or suffering. Even the mind sick with Alzheimers can recall it and be comforted.
    Thought provoking post, Corey!

  4. Thank you for your simple strong faith, you spread it in every word you send as easy as peanut butter and jelly.

  5. My faith is a very very very important part of my life.
    I try to be a light for Christ in everything I do in life.
    My life was God’s gift to me
    what I do with my life is my gift to God.
    Isaiah 9, verse 6:
    For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counsellor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever.
    The government will be upon his shoulders. All levels of government, from world politicians to office managers, are currently carried out my fallible men and women. Sometimes they are strong, and good. Other times they are not. In the Kingdom era the ultimate head of Government will be Christ himself.

  6. I received my rosary when I made my first communion at the age of six. I remember thinking it was the most sacred thing I had ever owned. Even today, all these years later there is a feeling of solace that comes over me when I hold my rosary in my hands.

  7. Another great post by you.
    You are a creative writer.

  8. That’s why I can’t win at cards!! Great photo and story, Corey!!

  9. The Rosary has been one of my saving graces….. restoring my sanity more times than I can count. Your post this morning absolutely warms my heart! Thank you!

  10. Ha! One of the most important times to find God is while playing cards.

  11. Hi C. Just to let you know that TiC is a ‘christmas gift’ over at secret Hill. Hope that’s ok with you?

  12. My faith is as natural as breathing to me. In the early years of my marriage – I strayed from the organized traditions. I know have become reaquainted and am so much more grounded in all of the ways of Christ.
    Thank you again for showing us that you can tie together the sacred and the secular and make it all a part of sharing God’s love with others.
    Have a beautiful day.

  13. God was someone you could talk to wherever you were, no matter how you felt.
    This is my families thoughts as well! Loved this post C! xo

  14. Corey, its always a little un-nerving how in tune you are with my own life… We had another ‘scare’ on Monday, and faith was what kept me going – faith and trust that the angels would spread their wings around my dear husband… Although I wasn’t brought up with the rosary, its meaning and strength guides my life… Bless her, and bless you dearest!

  15. Thank you for the reminder… our family has seen many miracles in the past couple of years. My mother surviving breast cancer. My sister in law surviving a terrible car accident that landed her in icu on a vent for months. My niece that was born premature and was in the nicu forever just celebrated her 2nd birthday- and is thriving… and my sister and brother in law saw Gods hand this year in the adoption of their 6th child – he is from Ethiopia! God is Great. I write these things to not forget- to remind myself. May we never forget. Your family -your grandparents gave you the most important gift of all – Faith. What an amazing blessing! Thank you for sharing another part of your life with us. 🙂

  16. I think this is beautiful. I want it to be like this for my kids…
    🙂

  17. Your Grandparents sound like the perfect example of people living their faith.
    Coincidently, my blog post today includes a playing card although in an entirely different direction.

  18. Lorene Silva

    Corey,
    Well said. But I have to tell you that I laughed out loud when you said that your Grandparents probably didn’t say the rosary while they were playing cards, although maybe they did because they won alot. Well that just brought back some memories of your Grandma. I remember Va, my Mom and I going over to your Grandma’s house (Tia Chica to me) to play cards. And man how your Grandma hated to lose at cards! LOL! She was quite the player and I would feel intimidated. I felt that I was not worthy to play with her. That brought back some great memories. I can picture her now, sitting at her table in the kitchen tapping her hand on the table waiting for her turn to play her card.
    Thanks for the trip down memory lane!
    Love,
    Lorene

  19. Just holding a rosary can give so much comfort. Thank you for a truly inspiring post, Corey.

  20. I was raised an Anglican, and married into a Catholic family.I saw first hand the comfort the rosary gave my MIL when she was terminally ill last year, and to my FIL now he is without her..
    I’ve never owned a rosary, but envy those to whom it brings peace of mind.

  21. Anything that quiets the mind and focuses on the positive is great by me– whether it be the rosary or a game of cards. I can only imagine that it would be doubly effective to do both at once!

  22. Rituals and traditions are so important. They bring a sense of security and focus as we navigate what each day brings. Lovely post, Corey.

  23. heehee…maybe…
    minus the rosary your family sounds just about like mine…

  24. Oh Corey, I think we had the same family: reading your post today made me think of grandmere saying her ‘beads’ endlessly, it seemed. Pat

  25. It is very soothing and meditative activity, the rosary. L helped make some in Sunday school (Anglican ones are not so long and complicated, as my ex-Catholic H pointed out!).

  26. Corey, the way you pull your posts together from different words, images and links… expresses very well what you want to say, but also leaves spaces, little rooms for the reader to enter and find what else they may also need to see and understand.

  27. Thanks for the memories Corey. I remember most about VoVo & VaVa that when you went to visit, make sure that someone went with you. Boy, they would let you know that we can’t play cards with only three people! And when we did play, Oh-that one card that they threw down so HARD- you knew that you weren’t going to win that trick!! The smile on their faces I’ll never forget. Two things they loved doing – Saying the rosary and playing cards. Thanks to them our family is close and full of love.
    You made my day…
    lala

  28. Faith……….. Without it where would I be? For awhile I said the rosary. I took it upon myself to learn when I was 25 yrs. I am not Catholic, my husband is. I have a small collection of rosarys made out of rosewood to include the one my husband has from his childhood. This one I have hanging with his St. Christopher in our house because they are sacred and beautiful. I wish you blessings Corey.

  29. Great post… faith is a very important part of our family life also.

  30. My family says the rosary everyday too.

  31. So nice to catch up with you again-enjoyed your post as always!

  32. My grandmother was the same way, I am so very glad I inherited one of her rosaries.

  33. Although not Catholic as a teenager I had a great desire for a rosary. At the time nothing seemed more comforting than to count the beads as you prayed, I think I must have got the notion from some novel or other. Very kindly my Grandmother, non Catholic, bought me a set of rosary beads. I cherish them to this day.

  34. Hi Corey….My Mom said the rosary 2 times every single day! I have a rosary collection…one of my very favorite things…Being a Catholic…the rosary is so important to me!!!
    Hope all is well..Have a wonderful Christmas! Love, Vicci

  35. Gracie’s post reminded me of my late aunt. She lived to be over 90, and was vibrant and alert almost to the very end. In the last few weeks, though, she lost herself, and wouldn’t recognize us or know where she was. But as she wandered around the nursing home, her lips were always moving.
    If you listened closely, you could hear the prayers of the rosary. It was as if the rosary was so essential to her being, that when she lost everything else, it was the only thing still with her.
    Her prayers still give me comfort–I know she’s in heaven right now, saying a decade for me.
    Thank you for a lovely post. Your grandparents remind me of my Portuguese grandparents-in-law.

  36. I LOVE this piece Corey! Every echo of faith rings true. I wonder if saying the rosary is the Catholic equivalent of meditation? It definitely soothed me as a little girl… and when my son was a baby, it was the thing that calmed my fears and let me sleep. thanks for this wonderfully well-written vignette.

  37. Such a lovely post Corey : ) I too grew up Catholic, and so much of what was around me when i was little I miss…the sweet old fashioned prayer books, those little saint books, and of course all the rosaries : )

  38. My earliest memories are of my memere rocking and praying the rosary. She held me along with the beads and we would rock together…this was peace here on earth….

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